175 Best Tinder Conversation Starters For Instant Responses

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• Do you normally go for people that are super good looking or super funny?
• Asking the right questions isn’t just about keeping the conversation going.
• That’s what dating apps are for, after all.

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Keep using these tips and tricks until you’re both comfortable enough that conversation just flows. When that happens, ask them out on a real date. Since there’s an inherent pressure to always be witty, you can be sure of the fact that a lame introduction is most probably not going to warrant a response. If you want to stand out, do a little research before sending your opener. Take a look around their profile and see what catches your eye.

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Plus, the most powerful technique to get her hooked to your texts. You’re not writing a novel or trying to deliver a TED Talk—keep it chill. Starting with light, playful conversation takes the pressure off and sets a positive tone. Don’t be afraid to throw in a little tease. Teasing shows confidence and can create a fun dynamic right off the bat. Just don’t cross into “trying too hard” territory.

Here’s the secret to starting a great conversation. Do you normally go for people that are super good looking or super funny? People always say they want to be the person their pet thinks they are, but my pet knows that all I do is watch bad TV in my pajamas and eat cereal for every meal. Do you often run out of things to say or feel awkward and self-conscious in social situations? 💪 Speak so people listen,🤐 No more awkward silences,🚫 No more small talk.